This is the final in a series of four blogs about how the Drama Triangle* can be used as means of identifying the kind of thinking we are...

This is the third in a series of four blogs about how the Drama Triangle* can be used as means of identifying the kind of thinking we are...

In my previous blog I wrote about how the Drama Triangle* can be used as a means of identifying the kind of thinking we are doing when...

Do you find yourself getting frustrated with others at times? Or feeling resentful about the things you feel obliged to do? Perhaps there...

Metaphors describe one thing in terms of another and give form to things which are otherwise difficult to describe. Suppose, for example,...

Clean questions are a great way of helping someone to bring mindful awareness to their inner experience. By repeating back the other...

Over the past few months of lockdown, parents across the world have had to take on the role of teacher as they home-school their...

Over the past 6 months I have been doing some research for a book that I am writing. It's all about bringing a different kind of...

Managing the sense of 'busy-ness' that life can bring: using Clean questions to bring a moment of calm reflection and connect with w

I’ve recently started running Listening Space courses for parents in which participants are: introduced to models of human behaviour to...

Over the past few years I have noticed that if I sit still for long enough to ‘capture the moment’, a poem appears.  And if I find myself gr

Clean questions can transform the way that you listen. One participant from a recent Listening Space course, Mark, describes how he found...

Taking time to reflect on what's important to you can be a great antidote to all the busy-ness of our everyday lives. This blog invites

Teenage life comes with its ups and downs, bringing with it emotions that can feel confusing and overwhelming at times. As a parent of a...

A music teacher friend recently shared her experience of working with a pupil who has Asperger's syndrome and struggles to manage his em

Asking a child Clean questions can help them understand their emotions better so that they can deal more calmly with the ups and downs of th

I’d like to introduce you to Sophie – a mother of two young children; Ella, who is eight years old, and Sam, who is five. Having found...

I recently interviewed Annie Rappeport, a 32 year-old American PhD student, about her experience of chronic illness as part of a...

What happens if we resist the temptation to rescue? If we are willing to sit alongside a person in their discomfort rather than go into ‘fi

Clean questions help to keep a conversation going without me having to think of clever things to say.