Tamsin Hartley
The hurdle of expectations
When things turn out the way you had wanted them to, or maybe even better than expected, it can feel great. Whether this be a project at...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Nov 3
- 2 min
Finding Another Way
I’d like to share a story recently told to me by a coach who chose to use the Listening Space process with a client. This client was...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Jul 26, 2021
- 8 min
The Drama Triangle: Part 4
This is the final in a series of four blogs about how the Drama Triangle* can be used as means of identifying the kind of thinking we are...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Jun 28, 2021
- 3 min
The Drama Triangle: Part 3
This is the third in a series of four blogs about how the Drama Triangle* can be used as means of identifying the kind of thinking we are...
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Tamsin Hartley
- May 23, 2021
- 3 min
The Drama Triangle: Part 2
In my previous blog I wrote about how the Drama Triangle* can be used as a means of identifying the kind of thinking we are doing when...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Mar 17, 2021
- 5 min
The Drama Triangle: Part 1
Do you find yourself getting frustrated with others at times? Or feeling resentful about the things you feel obliged to do? Perhaps there...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Dec 13, 2020
- 4 min
The pressure of time
Metaphors describe one thing in terms of another and give form to things which are otherwise difficult to describe. Suppose, for example,...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Sep 21, 2020
- 3 min
Calming a busy mind
Clean questions are a great way of helping someone to bring mindful awareness to their inner experience. By repeating back the other...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Jun 28, 2020
- 3 min
'Locked up' in lockdown
Over the past few months of lockdown, parents across the world have had to take on the role of teacher as they home-school their...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Jan 27, 2020
- 6 min
A father's love divided
Over the past 6 months I have been doing some research for a book that I am writing. It's all about bringing a different kind of...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Dec 1, 2019
- 3 min
Bringing a moment of calm to the festive season
Managing the sense of 'busy-ness' that life can bring: using Clean questions to bring a moment of calm reflection and connect with w
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Tamsin Hartley
- Oct 30, 2019
- 3 min
A Listening Space for parents
I’ve recently started running Listening Space courses for parents in which participants are: introduced to models of human behaviour to...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Oct 20, 2019
- 2 min
Captured Moments: poems inspired by a Listening Space
Over the past few years I have noticed that if I sit still for long enough to ‘capture the moment’, a poem appears. And if I find myself gr
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Tamsin Hartley
- May 31, 2019
- 2 min
Getting to the heart of the matter
Clean questions can transform the way that you listen. One participant from a recent Listening Space course, Mark, describes how he found...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Jan 17, 2019
- 3 min
A creative look at the year ahead
Taking time to reflect on what's important to you can be a great antidote to all the busy-ness of our everyday lives. This blog invites
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Tamsin Hartley
- Dec 15, 2018
- 3 min
Bridging an unreachable gap
Teenage life comes with its ups and downs, bringing with it emotions that can feel confusing and overwhelming at times. As a parent of a...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Nov 12, 2018
- 3 min
Helping children manage their emotions: part 3
A music teacher friend recently shared her experience of working with a pupil who has Asperger's syndrome and struggles to manage his em
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Tamsin Hartley
- Nov 12, 2018
- 1 min
Helping children manage their emotions: part 1
Asking a child Clean questions can help them understand their emotions better so that they can deal more calmly with the ups and downs of th
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Tamsin Hartley
- Nov 12, 2018
- 2 min
Helping children manage their emotions: part 2
I’d like to introduce you to Sophie – a mother of two young children; Ella, who is eight years old, and Sam, who is five. Having found...
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Tamsin Hartley
- Oct 15, 2018
- 14 min
Navigating the challenges of chronic illness
I recently interviewed Annie Rappeport, a 32 year-old American PhD student, about her experience of chronic illness as part of a...
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