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Helping children manage their emotions: part 3
A music teacher friend recently shared her experience of working with a pupil who has Asperger's syndrome and struggles to manage his em
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Tamsin Hartley
Nov 12, 20182 min read
Helping children manage their emotions: part 1
Asking a child Clean questions can help them understand their emotions better so that they can deal more calmly with the ups and downs of th
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Tamsin Hartley
Nov 12, 20182 min read
Helping children manage their emotions: part 2
I’d like to introduce you to Sophie – a mother of two young children; Ella, who is eight years old, and Sam, who is five. Having found...
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Tamsin Hartley
Oct 15, 201815 min read
Navigating the challenges of chronic illness
I recently interviewed Annie Rappeport, a 32 year-old American PhD student, about her experience of chronic illness as part of a...
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Tamsin Hartley
Sep 23, 20184 min read
Mindful Listening
What happens if we resist the temptation to rescue?
If we are willing to sit alongside a person in their discomfort rather than go into ‘fi
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Tamsin Hartley
Aug 24, 20182 min read
Keeping the conversation going
Clean questions help to keep a conversation going without me having to think of clever things to say.
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Tamsin Hartley
Jul 24, 20185 min read
Asking questions your body can answer
When someone is feeling tension all around the top of their body, how could just two simple questions be as helpful as a massage? Clean...
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Tamsin Hartley
Apr 19, 20184 min read
A Listening Space for two people
The Listening Space can be used for joint exploration, facilitating two people together to explore an issue that is important to them. Wheth
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Tamsin Hartley
Mar 21, 20183 min read
A police matter
Meet Jo – a police sergeant who manages a community policing team. Over the past couple of years the demands of Jo’s work have changed...
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Tamsin Hartley
Jan 3, 20182 min read
The individual and the community
There is an African Zulu greeting that people give when they meet one another: Sawubona . More than our traditional ‘hello’, this word...
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Tamsin Hartley
Oct 7, 20172 min read
Transformative Listening
Change the way we listen to ourselves and we make better decisions, imagine our future more clearly, and take more pleasure in what we...
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Tamsin Hartley
Aug 29, 20172 min read
A window into the mind
Naoki Higashida's powerful description of living with autism is a salutary reminder that we should never assume to know what another per
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Tamsin Hartley
Aug 9, 20172 min read
Being a parent
If you're a parent you may well identify that raising children can be one of the most rewarding experiences that life has to offer. But
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Tamsin Hartley
Apr 12, 20172 min read
Metaphors, metaphors everywhere!
The whole world is a metaphor for something else. And metaphors do just arise spontaneously.
When we are asked Clean questions of the meta
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Tamsin Hartley
Apr 12, 20172 min read
Exploring creative ideas
Asking Clean questions is a great way of helping someone explore and develop creative ideas. The Listening Space helps to give structure to
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Tamsin Hartley
Feb 25, 20171 min read
Clean pain relief
Sophie had been suffering from awful daily headaches and was reluctant to take the strong medication for chronic migraine that her GP had...
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Tamsin Hartley
Jan 31, 20172 min read
Overcoming 'writer's block'
Asking Clean questions of the metaphors we naturally use to describe our experience helps us to bring them into focus, making them more defi
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